tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253432243270514548.post6059408785713696724..comments2023-04-02T18:07:39.343+08:00Comments on JurnalKehidupanku: ANTARA EGO LELAKI DAN KERENDAHAN HATI SEORANG WANITAAchiqhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03554440249019661073noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253432243270514548.post-77835489305567439202010-07-17T13:13:34.284+08:002010-07-17T13:13:34.284+08:00tambahan..lagi perit bl anak sakit, die wat xtau.....tambahan..lagi perit bl anak sakit, die wat xtau..then bl mtak tlg drive, die mcm marah2 seolah2 xlogik kl die nk dtg then bpatah blk semula..hdp xnak ada pengorbanan..xle xcukup rht/tdo..yg parah, isteri laaa..Achiqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03554440249019661073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253432243270514548.post-10173913554116392632010-07-17T13:11:37.724+08:002010-07-17T13:11:37.724+08:00tp mslhnya rahmah, kl ada benda yg urgent kena bua...tp mslhnya rahmah, kl ada benda yg urgent kena buat, xkan nak tgu die kot...bl xduduk skali nie laen situasinya...then bl sesekali duk sebumbung, bl 1 phk xcuba maen peranan n nak goyang kaki, tu yg rs perit...bl kita sesekali mta tlg, adk bradik ipar plak anggap kita kontrol suami..label suami takut bini..huhuhuhu how??Achiqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03554440249019661073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2253432243270514548.post-66316136753022607762010-06-18T13:26:28.958+08:002010-06-18T13:26:28.958+08:00i agree with u achiq tp i have different perspecti...i agree with u achiq tp i have different perspective. i would not say dat as ego la. maybe btol ade yg ego. tp in diz situation, i wud say, it is their nature.<br /><br />try baca buku men are from mars, women are from venus. from there, u can know how much u did mistakes in relationship including me.<br /><br />we have to bare in mind "men are motivated and empowered WHEN THEY ARE FEEL NEEDED"<br />meaning, dia hepi if kita bergantung sikit dkt dia. <br /><br />mmg betul, semua mnde tu kita wat, equally or even better than him. tapi, mmg nature of a man, dia nak ada rasa "tanggungjwb" or "autonomi". mcm kita pun, msti ada perangai semulajadi kita kan? <br /><br />so for me its not ego. laki ni if nampak kita semua boleh buat sendiri, dia akan start pk dia tak diperlukan, rasa demotivated, rasa apalah guna ada suami tapi isteri pun leh wat semua.. contohlah..<br /><br /><br />jgn salahkan sesape, mmg their brain working dat way. so datz y women yg tahu that fact, rela je bagi laki buat even xdela bagus sgt pon. coz itula caranya dia rasa motivated. rasa happy. bila dia hepi, relationship pun jd hepi hehe<br /><br />ingat, dlm relationship both partners have to win. <br /><br />i had gone thru da same situation too. yes, as a women, we need to be independent, but for the sake of relationship, y not mengalah sikit. saya pun pernah mengalami mnde ni. bila taw dat fact, saya betulkan n makin better :) <br /><br />laki mmg tak perasan pon diz fact, tp diorg mmg azali cm2 :) even ada yg nampak ok je n tolak ansur, percayalah, deep down dia mmg nak rasa needed by us. <br />ala...achik lagi tahu mnde ni. heheOrkidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10523565040467683821noreply@blogger.com